Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk So Much?

Dirty Words to Make Him Yours

Teaser 1

Talk dirty to me…” It’s the title of rock and pop songs… It’s something you’ve probably been asked to do… And maybe you fumbled around trying to come up with a response… Maybe you just changed the subject and …

Talk dirty to me…”

It’s the title of rock and pop songs…

It’s something you’ve probably been asked to do…

And maybe you fumbled around trying to come up with a response…

Maybe you just changed the subject and hoped he didn’t ask again!

No matter how you personally feel about talking dirty, you totally get that guys love dirty talk. But have you ever wondered “why is dirty talk so arousing to him?”

Look no further as I’m here to give you the low-down on the dirty. Knowing why he loves it when you talk dirty gives you an unfair advantage. It’s sort of like having advanced sexy ninja skills to make him putty in your presence.

Come with me as we uncover the specifics of why talking dirty drives men wild!

1. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets

Woman Showing How to Talk Dirty to a Guy If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a big charge of excitement. He knows that he is the only one who gets to see this naughty side of you. Like he’s the one who inspires you to be uninhibited and that’s intoxicating to his ego.

And even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a dirty little vixen for his eyes only gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens all of his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.

2. He feels like a rockstar sex god

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you f#$%ing LOVE what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled expressions of bliss tell him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

You see, men are hard-wired in their brains to please us sexually. This goes all the way back to cave man-days. However, in modern life, there are so many mixed signals both genders give that can get in the way of him knowing he’s “done his job” of satisfying you. Dirty talk cuts right through all the gray and speaks to him clearly.

3. Your confidence slays him

A woman who can confidently use dirty talk to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Most men are helplessly drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. He doesn’t have to play guessing games as to how to turn you on when you tell him exactly what you want.

And your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!

4. Dirty talk equals enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. In fact, enthusiasm is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome. Think about it, a quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. He ends up wondering if he’s pleasing you which can bring up insecurities for him.

When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and at the moment, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are enjoying yourself. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you two validates that he’s pleasing you, refer to #2 above!

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty?

Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone. If you’ve thought “I’m too shy to talk dirty!” or you simply want to know exactly how to talk dirty to a man I’d love to show you! All I ask is you don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life!

Three easy ways to ease into naughty talk are to…

Happy Woman Doing Dirty Talks by Texting1. Start by texting

A simple “I can’t stop thinking about…” followed by a message like “you naked” or “the way you satisfied me last night” or “how bad I want you right now” are ways to get your point across without being totally explicit. It’s a great place to start.

2. Give a naughty play-by-play

When you are having sex, you can describe out loud how much you love what he’s doing. Tell him how good he feels, tell him you don’t want him to stop, or give him directions on what to do next.

3. Take a deep breath and let it fly!

It helps to think of getting into character. What would the naughty vixen version of you say to him? Play that role and don’t censor what dirty words fly out of your mouth!

In the program The Language of Desire I teach you ways to get over any shyness you may feel about talking dirty and give you over 200+ dirty phrases that are totally done for you. I coach you step-by-step exactly how to talk dirty to your guy and get comfortable saying naughty things.

Naughty phrases guaranteed to drive him wild!

Dirty Words to Make Him Yours

Click here To Learn More About 

Language of Desire

Why “ED” doesn’t Spell the E-N-D to Mutual Satisfaction

Teaser 2

We’ve all giggled at the goofy commercials but ED is a problem that affects nearly every relationship at one time or another. Felicity Keith offers up some advice on the topic. Hi Felicity! I met the love of my life …

We’ve all giggled at the goofy commercials but ED is a problem that affects nearly every relationship at one time or another. Felicity Keith offers up some advice on the topic.

Hi Felicity! I met the love of my life at age 59 and we are now engaged (he’s 58 & I’m 60). We are both fit, healthy & look much younger than our years. But we have a sexual problem, one that is very common to many.

My sweetheart has erectile dysfunction. I bought medication for him but it hasn’t worked. He goes above & beyond to satisfy me but I think it’s a bit of overkill. I get exhausted and so wiped out from aggressive oral & manual stimulation, sometimes twice a day but definitely every day.

I’ve discussed this with him and he tries to slow down a bit but goes right back after a few days. I tried explaining that, if he was able to perform regularly, he could NEVER keep up a schedule like that. Any suggestions for me?

Wow! That is wonderful to have a partner so committed to making sure you are sexually satisfied. However, ouch!, what you describe would be a bit of overkill for most women.

Our lady bits are the most sensitive part of our body and is home to over 8000 nerve endings all packed into one very small area. It’s pretty common to need some downtime after a round of focused stimulation. Plus, a climax itself can be emotionally (as well as physically) draining.

ED Erectile Dysfunction Issue in a Relationship I definitely encourage you to explain that to him directly. Too much attention in that one glorious location can equal a whole lotta discomfort for you!

An important thing for you to understand as well is that ED can be a big blow to his self-esteem. For so many guys, his entire identity as a man is connected to his penis in some manner. And combine that with how much of his sexual self-worth comes from pleasing his woman… well, when the little guy isn’t cooperating, it can be devastating.

His over-eagerness to make certain you are satisfied in the Big O department is likely an effort to compensate for the ED and also to boost his confidence that he KNOWS he satisfies you.

The problem is that it sounds like in all of his effort to focus on you, he’s forgotten to check in and make sure you are enjoying yourself.

One question I have is whether you’ve tried more than just one type of ED medication? Because, like with so many medical and health issues, it can take some trial and error to find the right dosage or type of medicine that works. I definitely encourage you both to not give up!

Now, back to your uncomfortable situation…

My suggestion is to take climaxing off the table for a defined period of time, like say for a week or two. Tell him instead of focusing on you reaching climax, you are both going to focus on enjoying the pleasure of sensual physical touch. Kissing, massage, exploring other erogenous zones besides genitals.

Because sex and intimacy are so much more than intercourse and climaxing.

ED Erectile Dysfunction and How to Handle It You could play with different sensations using massage oil, ice cubes, soft fabrics, etc. Just enjoy taking turns running these items across different parts of your body and enjoy how it feels.

You can also take long baths or showers together where you wash each other’s hair and soap up each other's bodies. Basically, get in touch with things that feel wonderful and loving and sensual to remind each other that there is more to your bedroom life than nether region stimulation.

Another fun idea is to enjoy a supercharged make-out session. Just like back when you were teenagers. You could drive the car to a place like a beach or to a drive-in movie (if you live near one that still operates) and kiss like crazy.

All of these activities are mutually pleasurable.

You will probably discover a slower pace and things that feel good you’d either never imagined or had forgotten. And that gives you a new menu of options to choose from down the road.

Once the no-climax period is over with, you can reincorporate pleasure “down there” from him. Just encourage that slower pace and tenderness.

In the program The Language of Desire I teach over 30 fun techniques that amp up the intimacy in any relationship. There is even an entire section devoted to what to do if there are obstacles to overcome in your sex life.

Dirty Words to Make Him Yours

Click here To Learn More About 

Language of Desire

Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk So Much?

Teaser 3

Talk dirty to me…” It’s the title of rock and pop songs… It’s something you’ve probably been asked to do… And maybe you fumbled around trying to come up with a response… Maybe you just changed the subject and …

Talk dirty to me…”

It’s the title of rock and pop songs…

It’s something you’ve probably been asked to do…

And maybe you fumbled around trying to come up with a response…

Maybe you just changed the subject and hoped he didn’t ask again!

No matter how you personally feel about talking dirty, you totally get that guys love dirty talk. But have you ever wondered “why is dirty talk so arousing to him?”

Look no further as I’m here to give you the low-down on the dirty. Knowing why he loves it when you talk dirty gives you an unfair advantage. It’s sort of like having advanced sexy ninja skills to make him putty in your presence.

Come with me as we uncover the specifics of why talking dirty drives men wild!

1. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets

Woman Showing How to Talk Dirty to a Guy If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a big charge of excitement. He knows that he is the only one who gets to see this naughty side of you. Like he’s the one who inspires you to be uninhibited and that’s intoxicating to his ego.

And even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a dirty little vixen for his eyes only gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens all of his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.

2. He feels like a rockstar sex god

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you f#$%ing LOVE what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled expressions of bliss tell him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

You see, men are hard-wired in their brains to please us sexually. This goes all the way back to caveman days. However, in modern life, there are so many mixed signals both genders give that can get in the way of him knowing he’s “done his job” of satisfying you. Dirty talk cuts right through all the gray and speaks to him clearly.

3. Your confidence slays him

A woman who can confidently use dirty talk to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Most men are helplessly drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. He doesn’t have to play guessing games as to how to turn you on when you tell him exactly what you want.

And your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!

4. Dirty talk equals enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. In fact, enthusiasm is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome. Think about it, a quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. He ends up wondering if he’s pleasing you which can bring up insecurities for him.

When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and at the moment, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are enjoying yourself. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you two validates that he’s pleasing you, refer to #2 above!

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty?

Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone. If you’ve thought “I’m too shy to talk dirty!” or you simply want to know exactly how to talk dirty to a man I’d love to show you! All I ask is you don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life!

Three easy ways to ease into naughty talk are to…

Happy Woman Doing Dirty Talks by Texting1. Start by texting

A simple “I can’t stop thinking about…” followed by a message like “you naked” or “the way you satisfied me last night” or “how bad I want you right now” are ways to get your point across without being totally explicit. It’s a great place to start.

2. Give a naughty play-by-play

When you are having sex, you can describe out loud how much you love what he’s doing. Tell him how good he feels, tell him you don’t want him to stop, or give him directions on what to do next.

3. Take a deep breath and let it fly!

It helps to think of getting into character. What would the naughty vixen version of you say to him? Play that role and don’t censor what dirty words fly out of your mouth!

In the program The Language of Desire I teach you ways to get over any shyness you may feel about talking dirty and give you over 200+ dirty phrases that are totally done for you. I coach you step-by-step exactly how to talk dirty to your guy and get comfortable saying naughty things.

Naughty phrases guaranteed to drive him wild!

Dirty Words to Make Him Yours

Click here To Learn More About 

Language of Desire

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